who you are in high school is not who you will be in college and who you are in college is not who you will be when you are 30.
when you accept that you are malleable and ever-changing, you will be less resistant to new ways of thinking and being and you will grow into the beautiful person you are meant to become.
resist the urge to remain stagnant. there are always things to learn about the world and yourself. let yourself learn them.
Guys who actually makes plans
It doesn’t have to be elaborate
I don’t care for fancy dates
but if he says,
"Hey let’s grab some coffee, my treat."
"I need to buy a sweater, help me choose?"
"I haven’t seen you in awhile, Let’s go watch a movie."
It sounds a lot better than
"I don’t know, what do you want to do choose"